Rethinking Dog Training for Retired Life: A New Chapter for You and Your Dog
Today we have a guest writer!
Jenn Friedline CBCC-KA, CPDT-KA, FDM is the owner and founder of Jenn’s Dogs. She focuses on the relationship between humans and their canine companions.
Retirement brings a new rhythm to life. It’s often slower, more intentional, and full of possibilities. The relationship you share with your dog can grow even deeper during this stage, especially when your lifestyle shifts and your priorities change. As we settle into this new pace, it’s important to recognize that the way we live with dogs has also evolved.
Traditional obedience and rigid routines are no longer the gold standard for many families. Instead, more people, especially older adults, are discovering the value of connection, communication, and companionship over control.
How Society Has Changed and What That Means for Dogs
Dogs today are growing up in a very different world than they did just a few decades ago. Most no longer roam freely through neighborhoods or spend afternoons playing with other dogs nearby. Modern life has become more structured and technology-focused, which means dogs spend more time inside and on leash, and have fewer chances for natural social interaction.
As a result, dogs often miss out on key learning experiences. Many don’t get to practice being around other animals or unfamiliar people in safe and supportive ways. While the word “socialization” used to mean meeting lots of dogs and people, it now refers to helping your dog feel comfortable in a wide range of situations, environments, and experiences.
It’s also worth remembering that dogs are a lot like us when it comes to social preferences. They don’t need to be friends with everyone. What they do need is the ability to feel safe, move through the world with confidence, and respond politely to others. This kind of social skill-building takes time, patience, and thoughtful support.
Dog Training That Fits a Retired Lifestyle
Living with a dog in retirement can be a deeply fulfilling experience. You may find yourself with more time to spend together, more flexibility in your daily routine, and a greater appreciation for the small moments you share. Because of this, the type of training that works best often looks different from what you may have done in the past.
Rather than focusing on cues like "heel," "sit," or "stay," many retired dog guardians find it more helpful to focus on practical skills that make daily life easier. These include:
Impulse control — helping your dog pause before reacting
Redirection — guiding your dog toward more appropriate behaviors
Choice and agency — allowing your dog to make thoughtful decisions rather than simply obeying commands
This approach builds trust and strengthens communication between you and your dog. It also creates more room for mutual respect, flexibility, and understanding. The result is a calm and cooperative relationship that doesn’t rely on force or repetition.
Building Confidence and Connection
Dogs who bark, lunge, growl, or avoid people are often telling us something important. They may be feeling unsafe, overwhelmed, or unsure of what to expect. These behaviors aren’t signs of a “bad dog.” They’re signs of a dog trying to be heard.
Training can help both of you build a shared language. When you can clearly communicate your expectations, and your dog knows they can trust you to listen and support them, everyone feels more relaxed and confident.
A New Way to Train, A Better Way to Live
For seniors and retirees, time spent with your dog can be one of the most joyful parts of your day. Training doesn’t have to be strict or stressful. It can be a gentle, ongoing conversation that makes life together more enjoyable.
You don’t have to strive for perfection. What matters most is understanding.
When we shift our focus from control to connection, from obedience to cooperation, we open the door to a more meaningful bond. This is where the real magic of life with a dog begins.
Reach out to Jenn to learn more about what she does and how she can help you and your dog live a better life- together!
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